Tuesday, March 2, 2010

On days like these...

Out of habit, I vent out in front of BG.
"Argh. BAD DAY BAD DAY BAD DAY!"
"Get a hug. Eat a Burger. Drink a Beer."
"No hugs available.
Burger - Not in the mood.
If I have Beer then my work will surely get done."
"Okay."

After about an hour.

"Where are you?
"Home. Where else?"
"Okay. I will see you in 10 minutes."
"Uh.. Okay."

10 minutes later, the doorbell rings.
"Hi."
"Hi. You needed a hug na..."

Middle of the night I call K. We speak for an hour and a half about EVERYTHING on this planet, including our own whimsical one. She reassures me of who I am when I need it the most. She knows I am disillusioned. Demotivated. Frustrated. Pissed. Rusting to the extent of losing myself forever. She says the right things and makes things seem so much easier for me.
"You are L! How can you be letting yourself do this to you? Just go ahead and take the decision. I know it will not be easy but then you are not happy anyway. You bloody well do it."

Later after that call.
"Are you okay?"
"Yeah."
"Sure it is just work?"
"Yeah."
"Okay. Then you continue. We will talk tomorrow."
And G and I hang up.

Five minutes later, phone beeps.
"I know you had a bad day. Wish I'de know what happened and wish I could make it better for you. Now that I can not, all I can offer is a big hug with a promise that everything happens for good. Have a nice night baby. Tomorrow is a new day."

Some things can never change between me and G.

It is on days like these you wonder what good did you do in your life that you have such beautiful people in your life who are just there for you.

Thanking you three would be belittling the emotions and the ear to ear unending smile you brought on my face. All I can do is Thank God for having you in my life. Thank you God for making me your special child and someone special for these people. :) I still can not stop smiling. BIG HUG. BIG KISS.

Love 'n' Peace.

Hugs.
Kisses.

18 comments:

Dm said...

aw, that's sweet :> there are times when you feel all thankful and grateful and lucky to have amazing friends who are there for you unconditionally.. i love those times. hope yours last forever!

and its great to appreciate their friendship

*hug*

sulagna ™ said...

its unfair to expect God to help us out in all our messes..i guess tats why we have a band of crazy people who wish you a day after your birthday cuz they forgot and you cant get angry with them either :)

rainboy said...

:)

Friends are the best support system.
You are so lucky you have such great friends.

take care n keep smiling

Americanising Desi said...

i envy you so much my friend!
so so so much!

Dej@vu said...

awww...a be(e)r hug for you...

Luscious Sealed Lips said...

Dear DM,

I am more than thankful and grateful. :D

It is unbelievably beautiful. :)

Kisses.

Luscious Sealed Lips said...

Dear Sulagna,

My best friend K, after a decade of constant reminders also can NEVER remember my birthday. :P

Kisses.

Luscious Sealed Lips said...

Dear Rainboy,

Yes. I do feel lucky, loved and special. :)

Kisses.

Luscious Sealed Lips said...

Dear AD,

This enviousness I do not mind, AT ALL! ;)

Kisses.

Luscious Sealed Lips said...

Dear Deja vu,

Aaww.

*Hugs back*

Kisses.

Insomaniac Junkie said...

** there should be a like button too as on fb **

Jack said...

L S L,

Read 2 pending posts now. I am still laughing at your frank talk with so much of pun. Keep writing.

Please have your PC checked for virus as my PC got hung twice while visiting you.

Take care

sulagna ™ said...

about the G part of it...all i can say is :) and the part where you say things havent been too good your end, all i can say is"there are 24 other alphabets worth patronising" so go ahead and fill up more alphabets in life...life's all about fuschia pink,ribbons,lip glosses,gettign wild and Tequila shots!!

sanely insane said...

don't fool yourself, nothing comes close to beer and burger :P

Luscious Sealed Lips said...

Dear Insomniac Junkie,

LOL. :)

Kisses.

Luscious Sealed Lips said...

Dear Jack,

Thank you. :)

I did. Not detected anything.

Kisses.

Luscious Sealed Lips said...

Dear Sulagna,

Now, you are talking. YOU are my girl, I swear. ;)

So far, one of the best comments. :D

Kisses.

Luscious Sealed Lips said...

Dear Sanely Insane,

You for one, can not say that. You are such a sucker for hugs! :P

Kisses.

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