tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520888943112494138.post367276372492411928..comments2023-06-22T01:49:04.432-07:00Comments on Luscious Sealed Lips: To be only yours, I PrayLuscious Sealed Lipshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14189872074873893681noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520888943112494138.post-81199921196866202152009-04-04T13:47:00.000-07:002009-04-04T13:47:00.000-07:00i googled the song and i loved it!first qns and wh...i googled the song and i loved it!<BR/><BR/>first qns and what i believe the answers are:<BR/>qns => why should one marry in their religion/community only?<BR/>Ans => <BR/>[i] if the parents are from the same religion, they can both teach the same religion to their children. If the religion of the father and mother is different, there is often a conflict of interest. The child is taught two religions and his interest in each is lesser. The child grows up with no roots, with no religion to call his own,and since our traditions and culture are highly entwined with the religion we follow, this could be a loss for the child."why religion" is an entirely different debate. <BR/>[ii] if we are talking about a minority race, inter-marriage is the greatest destructor of ancient peoples and their belief. how? look what Jews in US have to say -> In USA, there are more than 2 million Jews. Their young have started inter-marriage with the white Christians on a large scale and the children mostly become Christians. The Rabbis (priests) of the Jews in the USA have said openly, that inter-marriage could destroy the Jewish religion in the USA and have a far worse effect than the Nazi holocaust.<BR/>[iii]fear for society [most important]. this could be seen as the most important point here. parents, your's and mine, are scared about the way the society is going to react to the decision of an inter caste marriage in the family. "fuck society" is not an apt comment on it. we depend on society and changing that is NOT practical.<BR/>[iv] moving out of your community is like moving out of your comfort zone. you dont know what to expect and when. that doesnt kil you, but yes - change is sure a pain at times.<BR/><BR/><BR/><B>the above said points does not in any way establish that i am an advocate for religion. i would love to promote inter caste marriages and would love to have a wife from another caste. the statements are my take on the questions asked and is not intended to bring any conflicts among any one.</B><BR/><BR/>second: u have urself for u, so why demand from others and expect them to give? :) good question. you are none alone. doubt? imagine a scenario where in you do not depend on any one else but you. "depend" does not mean depending on ur bro to take you to some store, depending on ur mom to answer ur queries and depending upon ur love to listen to you. it also means depending on ur parents for shelter, depending upon teachers for education, even depending upon the farmers for food. u learn new things from others, be it good or bad. <I>Only that I realized I was asking the wrong person. An already unanswered curios kid.</I> - ur words. only when u asked her about ur thoughts did you know that she din have the answers. thats a new lesson learned - most of the older generation was brought up like a fanatic and thats what they are doing right now to our generation! its good to have you for yourself, and its equally good to expect and demand. dont think too much. just observe and learn :)<BR/><BR/>u take care swthrt and sorry for that looooong comment :)Anil Sawanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09598267987035726165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520888943112494138.post-5158150796619474592009-04-04T03:54:00.000-07:002009-04-04T03:54:00.000-07:00waddup female!!...u turning godly all of a sudden?...waddup female!!...u turning godly all of a sudden?? ;-)..but i totally see ur reasoning...moms can be like tat..mine s cool though...but u cant really blame them...obv they want wats best for u and wats safe..i guess u understand too..<BR/><BR/>But anyways U love u..so everythings changa!!..hehe...oh and btw..never talk to a guy while he watches a match...i thought u d know by now!!Onwardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02827337968698773078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520888943112494138.post-80662119539495495162009-04-03T10:41:00.000-07:002009-04-03T10:41:00.000-07:00I liked this post...for most people understanding ...I liked this post...for most people understanding relationships is difficult...not that this blog answered the question...<BR/><BR/>but that it so beautifully framed it...<BR/><BR/>:)sanely insanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18445202328587652200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520888943112494138.post-37463204559155890302009-03-31T21:50:00.000-07:002009-03-31T21:50:00.000-07:00society, one of the bugs no ne can rid emself off....society, one of the bugs no ne can rid emself off.<BR/>i dunno how you did so beautifully in capturing the real essence but i felt it.<BR/>i m turnin 27 this year too and the agonies are mutual.inside and on the outside.<BR/><BR/>demand isnt a part of relationship. i think compromise is. at least in some cases.<BR/>demands never get the ample supply to complement!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520888943112494138.post-59530035735529823192009-03-30T13:59:00.000-07:002009-03-30T13:59:00.000-07:00I talk to God. I talk.........literally, for mysel...I talk to God. I talk.........literally, for myself.<BR/><BR/>I LOVED dis part!!<BR/><BR/><BR/>very much...sniff :(Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10570244118911302415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520888943112494138.post-20540997015998549632009-03-30T11:33:00.000-07:002009-03-30T11:33:00.000-07:00argh i need to edit my last comment. typos ! dont ...argh i need to edit my last comment. typos ! dont publish it.<BR/><BR/>publish this one<BR/><BR/>im happy you have you!!!<BR/>im a very emotionally dependent person<BR/><BR/>i love this song..Dipti Malhotrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07061881622770495755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520888943112494138.post-4690668164583091092009-03-30T11:28:00.000-07:002009-03-30T11:28:00.000-07:00im happy you have you!!! im such a very emotionall...im happy you have you!!!<BR/> <BR/>im such a very emotionally dependent person<BR/><BR/>i love this song..Dipti Malhotrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07061881622770495755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520888943112494138.post-34832824429487238762009-03-30T06:26:00.000-07:002009-03-30T06:26:00.000-07:00Luscious , ppl say , being demandingin a relations...Luscious , <BR/>ppl say , being demandingin a relationship can be harmful.<BR/><BR/>but its sometime quite imperative , in demanding them , what u need of them.<BR/>after all , when u put in so much of <BR/>effort , do so much of them , and in the end , if they dont reciprocate , its so much frustrating.<BR/><BR/>To await a reply for six months for a single question "Why ?" aint demanding.<BR/><BR/>The other partner is equally responsible to atleast notify the other person what he/she feels or to act according to the other's wishes !Karthik Muralihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13324635897825333428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520888943112494138.post-48315715175418971232009-03-29T14:29:00.000-07:002009-03-29T14:29:00.000-07:00Great mind at work .... Loved your thoughts and re...Great mind at work .... Loved your thoughts and reasoning .... Way to go !!!Rahul Viswanathhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06063750270954817311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520888943112494138.post-74727834272253433062009-03-29T10:31:00.000-07:002009-03-29T10:31:00.000-07:00hey nice goin....:)hey nice goin....:)Santanu.......https://www.blogger.com/profile/06235742041365590961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520888943112494138.post-11430793115738210432009-03-29T09:47:00.000-07:002009-03-29T09:47:00.000-07:00Hey...Thanks for this post... I share your view......Hey...<BR/>Thanks for this post... I share your view... but I needed to read it.<BR/>I missed coming here... I'm glad you still show up around my place... :)<BR/>Thanks for everything, for being yourself...<BR/>***izziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16794882817804264391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520888943112494138.post-27339893224877317232009-03-28T02:29:00.000-07:002009-03-28T02:29:00.000-07:00i like the way you think....the society is set upo...i like the way you think....the society is set upon many things which has no logic or purpose and will never hesitate to scandalize people on that basisNihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03631205656534363299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520888943112494138.post-86878844148929658682009-03-27T22:05:00.000-07:002009-03-27T22:05:00.000-07:00Thats a perfect example of a generation gap..the "...Thats a perfect example of a generation gap..the "demand'supply' always goes on in such a kind of situation....i wont generalize all parents...bt ya most of the time they just dont have a logical reason...they fanatically follow the traditions:)Amithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01566865923898344226noreply@blogger.com